Luke 17: 28 Likewise also as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold, they planted, they builded; 29 But the same day that Lot went out of Sodom it rained fire and brimstone from heaven, and destroyed them all. 30 Even thus shall it be in the day when the Son of man is revealed. 31 In that day, he which shall be upon the housetop, and his stuff in the house, let him not come down to take it away: and he that is in the field, let him likewise not return back. 32 Remember Lot’s wife. 33 Whosoever shall seek to save his life shall lose it; and whosoever shall lose his life shall preserve it. 34 I tell you, in that night there shall be two men in one bed; the one shall be taken, and the other shall be left.
If we remember Lot’s wife as someone judged for failing to obey the angel asking her not to look back, and that the judgement on her is troubling then our theology is sad indeed for we have deliberately missed her sin which is sharing in the judgement of Sodom. What is the sin of Sodom, they were vile worshippers of Baal subjugating nations around them and having sex with the male prisoners to abuse them (not because they were gays) thus making them women. When Lot’s wife looked back, she shared in their judgement.
Why would a straight lady so comfortable in Sodom because it was not a gay town but full of straight alpha males and warriors. It was a rich and powerful city. But the judgement of God came upon them suddenly with no warning because they tried to poke the angel of God as if they were raping their male prisoners. They didn’t have a messenger sent to them as a warning. Jesus spoke in matt 11:24 of the greater judgement of those who had rejected Him. This world has forgotten about Lot’s wife because they thought Sodom was about homosexuality or merely looking back at the past.